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My boyfriend lacks romantic ambition. In our two years together, we've never gone out to dinner someplace I can wear a dress and heels, and he never brings me flowers or does anything for our anniversary or Valentine's Day.
My boyfriend lacks romantic ambition. In our two years together, we've never gone out to dinner someplace I can wear a dress and heels, and he never brings me flowers or does anything for our anniversary or Valentine's Day.
My commitment-phobic boyfriend of several years is also my neighbor. I resolved to make it work with him and then caught him on FriendFinder exchanging numerous messages with some woman in Tijuana.
I'm a 33-year-old nurse in a five-month "friends with benefits" thing with a doctor co-worker. I am only 18 months out of an abusive 10-year relationship and wanted something fun and light.
I'm a retired pastor in my 50s. A nearby church wanted my help with their Christmas musical, and I asked my wife of five years, who played bass at my church, to join me. She became angry at this suggestion and said I should do my own thing on Christmas and she'd do hers.
I just got dumped by a guy who swore he was ready to settle down (after years of serial monogamy). His relationship history reminded me of the man you wrote about recently who had been married and divorced five times and was on relationship number six.
You overlooked the danger when you replied to the woman who was invited on a hiking date by a man she'd had a crush on. You said that he probably got interested because he saw her with her new boyfriend.
Three years ago, I was divorced six weeks from a 22-year marriage when I got involved with a married co-worker and persuaded him to divorce his wife for me. He has been married five times and cheated on all of his wives.
I'm starting to have
feelings for this guy friend I've been fooling around with, but I'm worried he
isn't feeling the same way.
My girlfriend's best friend is her ex. They broke up six years ago (upon mutual agreement). She swears she's much happier being his friend and says they both feel they weren't meant to be romantic partners.
Two years ago, my man left his 22-year marriage to be with me, but he told me he loved his former wife and would always want a friendship with her. I accepted that (I'm friends with my ex), but I'm bothered by the amount of contact they have.
Dear Harlan: I met a girl on the Internet and we clicked immediately. We never officially dated, but we got very flirty, talked a ton and were sexual as well. It was as if we were in a relationship. We talked about how we were perfect for each other, aside from the fact that we lived on opposite sides of the country.
Dear Harlan: I met a girl on the Internet and we clicked immediately. We never officially dated, but we got very flirty, talked a ton and were sexual as well. It was as if we were in a relationship. We talked about how we were perfect for each other, aside from the fact that we lived on opposite sides of the country.
Dear Harlan: Last August, my wife and I welcomed twin boys into the world. They are beautiful, full of energy, and they actually sleep through the night! There is only one problem. Since they were born, our sex life has become nonexistent.
Dear Harlan: Any tips for moving on from a year-and-a-half-long college relationship? My girlfriend ended it because the distance between us over breaks was too much.
Dear Harlan: My roommate has been my friend for about a year, and we are in the same sorority. Things were good in the beginning because she slept over at her boyfriend's apartment every night.
Dear Harlan: I've gotten mixed messages when it comes to grooming for men (this includes all body parts). Do most women prefer shaved men? I'd like to know your opinion. I'd like to hear from other women as well. Thanks for the help. — Partially Shaved
Dear Readers: Happy New Year, everyone! Lately, I've been obsessing over the question, "What have I done today to change something in my life that I want to change?"
Dear Harlan: I'm in my late teens and still single. It's not easy to meet people. Does meeting people get easier as time goes on? Hoping the answer is yes. – Miss Mingling
Dear Harlan: I recently went to a party and I overdid it horribly, drinking way too much. It was the first time I blacked out. When I woke up, I didn't know where I was. Luckily, I was in an extremely safe place.
Dear Harlan: My son is in his second year of college, and he suddenly hates it and is miserable. Last weekend he drank on campus, decided to show others how fast his car went, and totaled the car. He and the passenger are OK, thank goodness, but he spent the night in the county jail.
Dear Harlan: How do you keep a guy interested when you're not planning to have sex? I don't want to have sex with him because that has ruined other relationships and friendships in the past. Any suggestions on how to move slowly? — Sex on hold
The View from Mudsock Heights
My bathmat is the key to solving the world's problems. Really. This stunning epiphany came to me the other day, when I washed it.
The View from Mudsock Heights
My bathmat is the key to solving the world's problems. Really. This stunning epiphany came to me the other day, when I washed it.
The View from Mudsock Heights
It's only January, but if you're like me
you're already sick of the election that is still nine months, a week, and a
day away.
Our political system is in permanent campaign
mode.
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Let us have a moment of silence for the Eastman Kodak Company. I'm serious. "The Great Yellow Father," as it used to be called in the photography press (when there was a photography
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If you're like me, you have available to you a quick and easy way of increasing your living space by quite a bit.
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The news last week had some stories that were both alarming and amusing. One had to do with scientists somewhere who had dabbled an enzyme on ant larvae, after which they — the larvae, not the scientists — grew into super ants with huge heads.
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Let us think about the schedule of days. This does seem a good time of year for it. While its history has been roundly considered and is colorful and sometimes amusing, what I have in mind is the future of the calendar.
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The retrospective section published in the Athens NEWS two weeks ago reminded me of just how effective a small-town, non-daily newspaper can be.
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One of the best uses of television ever, I think, came when BBC dramatized the wonderful books of James Herriot, collectively under the title of his first book, "All Creatures Great and Small."
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The headline was sad but not surprising:
"The Health Risks of Being Left-Handed:
Lefties Face Chance Of ADHD, Other Disorders; Brain Wiring Holds Clues."
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When Jim Quinn encounters a bell ringer and the familiar red kettle this time of year, despite limited means he digs deep in his pocket and gives what he can, to help those who have less.
• Despite good intentions, not all would-be good deeds work out. In 2009, actress Anne Hathaway saw a shabbily dressed woman sitting on a bench at a bus stop.
• Richard O'Brien created "The Rocky Horror Show," a hit on the stage. (It became the cult movie "The Rocky Horror Picture Show.") The show features Dr. Frank N. Furter, a transvestite scientist who gives straight-couple Brad and Janet a night that changes their lives.
•
Jean-Dominique Bauby, editor-in-chief of French Elle,
suffered a massive stroke that left his body almost totally incapacitated
although his mind was fine.








