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Ask the Advice Goddess

Ask the Advice Goddess (2-9-12)

My boyfriend lacks romantic ambition. In our two years together, we've never gone out to dinner someplace I can wear a dress and heels, and he never brings me flowers or does anything for our anniversary or Valentine's Day.

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Ask the Advice Goddess (2-2-12)

by Amy Alkon

My commitment-phobic boyfriend of several years is also my neighbor. I resolved to make it work with him and then caught him on FriendFinder exchanging numerous messages with some woman in Tijuana.

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Ask the Advice Goddess (1-26-12)

I'm a 33-year-old nurse in a five-month "friends with benefits" thing with a doctor co-worker. I am only 18 months out of an abusive 10-year relationship and wanted something fun and light.

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Ask the Advice Goddess (1-19-12)

by Amy Alkon

I'm a retired pastor in my 50s. A nearby church wanted my help with their Christmas musical, and I asked my wife of five years, who played bass at my church, to join me. She became angry at this suggestion and said I should do my own thing on Christmas and she'd do hers.

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Ask the Advice Goddess (1-12-12)

by Amy Alkon

I just got dumped by a guy who swore he was ready to settle down (after years of serial monogamy). His relationship history reminded me of the man you wrote about recently who had been married and divorced five times and was on relationship number six.

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Ask the Advice Goddess (1-5-12)

by Amy Alkon

You overlooked the danger when you replied to the woman who was invited on a hiking date by a man she'd had a crush on. You said that he probably got interested because he saw her with her new boyfriend.

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Ask the Advice Goddess (12-22-11)

by Amy Alkon

Three years ago, I was divorced six weeks from a 22-year marriage when I got involved with a married co-worker and persuaded him to divorce his wife for me. He has been married five times and cheated on all of his wives.

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Ask the Advice Goddess (12-15-11)

I'm starting to have feelings for this guy friend I've been fooling around with, but I'm worried he isn't feeling the same way.

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Ask the Advice Goddess (12-8-11)

by Amy Alkon

My girlfriend's best friend is her ex. They broke up six years ago (upon mutual agreement). She swears she's much happier being his friend and says they both feel they weren't meant to be romantic partners.

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Ask the Advice Goddess (12-1-11)

Two years ago, my man left his 22-year marriage to be with me, but he told me he loved his former wife and would always want a friendship with her. I accepted that (I'm friends with my ex), but I'm bothered by the amount of contact they have.

Help Me, Harlan!

Internet beau dropped like a bad habit & now wonders why

Dear Harlan: I met a girl on the Internet and we clicked immediately. We never officially dated, but we got very flirty, talked a ton and were sexual as well. It was as if we were in a relationship. We talked about how we were perfect for each other, aside from the fact that we lived on opposite sides of the country.

Help Me, Harlan!

Proud dad has beautiful twins but no sex worth mentioning

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: Last August, my wife and I welcomed twin boys into the world. They are beautiful, full of energy, and they actually sleep through the night! There is only one problem. Since they were born, our sex life has become nonexistent.

Help Me, Harlan!

Long-distance dating can be stable, but only with some stable partners

Dear Harlan: Any tips for moving on from a year-and-a-half-long college relationship? My girlfriend ended it because the distance between us over breaks was too much.

Help Me, Harlan!

College roommate’s betrayal prompts plot for revenge

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: My roommate has been my friend for about a year, and we are in the same sorority. Things were good in the beginning because she slept over at her boyfriend's apartment every night.

Help Me, Harlan!

Guy wants to know how to groom so as to get the ladies

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: I've gotten mixed messages when it comes to grooming for men (this includes all body parts). Do most women prefer shaved men? I'd like to know your opinion. I'd like to hear from other women as well. Thanks for the help. — Partially Shaved

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And here’s a happy New Year invitation from me to you...

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Readers: Happy New Year, everyone! Lately, I've been obsessing over the question, "What have I done today to change something in my life that I want to change?"

Help Me, Harlan!

Meeting people gets harder over time, for some people

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: I'm in my late teens and still single. It's not easy to meet people. Does meeting people get easier as time goes on? Hoping the answer is yes. – Miss Mingling 

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Girl blacks out and blames boyfriend for exiting scene

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: I recently went to a party and I overdid it horribly, drinking way too much. It was the first time I blacked out. When I woke up, I didn't know where I was. Luckily, I was in an extremely safe place.

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Mom tries to clean up damage after son's drunk-driving wreck

Dear Harlan: My son is in his second year of college, and he suddenly hates it and is miserable. Last weekend he drank on campus, decided to show others how fast his car went, and totaled the car. He and the passenger are OK, thank goodness, but he spent the night in the county jail.

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There are ways to hold a man’s interest without having sex

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: How do you keep a guy interested when you're not planning to have sex? I don't want to have sex with him because that has ruined other relationships and friendships in the past. Any suggestions on how to move slowly? — Sex on hold

The View from Mudsock Heights

World-saving technology may be hidden in your laundry

by Dennis Powell

My bathmat is the key to solving the world's problems. Really. This stunning epiphany came to me the other day, when I washed it.

The View from Mudsock Heights

Missing smoke-filled rooms & meaty political conventions

by Dennis Powell

It's only January, but if you're like me you're already sick of the election that is still nine months, a week, and a day away. Our political system is in permanent campaign mode.

The View from Mudsock Heights

Let us one final time pay homage to the great yellow god

by Dennis Powell

Let us have a moment of silence for the Eastman Kodak Company. I'm serious. "The Great Yellow Father," as it used to be called in the photography press (when there was a photography

The View from Mudsock Heights

A consumer tip from crazyland – get rid of all these boxes

by Dennis Powell

If you're like me, you have available to you a quick and easy way of increasing your living space by quite a bit.

The View from Mudsock Heights

What happens when humans try just about everything?

by Dennis Powell

The news last week had some stories that were both alarming and amusing. One had to do with scientists somewhere who had dabbled an enzyme on ant larvae, after which they — the larvae, not the scientists — grew into super ants with huge heads.

The View from Mudsock Heights

A new plan woud untangle the calendar, once and for all

by Dennis Powell

Let us think about the schedule of days. This does seem a good time of year for it. While its history has been roundly considered and is colorful and sometimes amusing, what I have in mind is the future of the calendar.

The View from Mudsock Heights

Even small papers can do great reporting and take bold stands

by Dennis Powell

The retrospective section published in the Athens NEWS two weeks ago reminded me of just how effective a small-town, non-daily newspaper can be.

The View from Mudsock Heights

Christmas is when we embrace how good humans can be

by Dennis Powell

One of the best uses of television ever, I think, came when BBC dramatized the wonderful books of James Herriot, collectively under the title of his first book, "All Creatures Great and Small."

The View from Mudsock Heights

It’s time to stop the bigoted attacks on left-handed people

by Dennis Powell

The headline was sad but not surprising: "The Health Risks of Being Left-Handed: Lefties Face Chance Of ADHD, Other Disorders; Brain Wiring Holds Clues."

The View from Mudsock Heights

An event two-thirds of a century old brings gratitude today

by Dennis Powell

When Jim Quinn encounters a bell ringer and the familiar red kettle this time of year, despite limited means he digs deep in his pocket and gives what he can, to help those who have less.

Wise Up!

Holocaust

By David Bruce

This is Wise Up! column number 800!

Wise Up!

Good Deeds

By David Bruce

• Despite good intentions, not all would-be good deeds work out. In 2009, actress Anne Hathaway saw a shabbily dressed woman sitting on a bench at a bus stop.

Wise Up!

Insults

U.S. Sen. Ingalls of Kansas used to shake his head vigorously whenever he disagreed with what a fellow senator was saying.

Wise Up!

Prejudice

By David Bruce

• In 1951, Barbara Stanwyck made the movie "To Please a Lady" with Clark Gable. The stars were going to stay at a good hotel in Indianapolis, Ind.

Wise Up!

Gays and lesbians

By David Bruce

Richard O'Brien created "The Rocky Horror Show," a hit on the stage. (It became the cult movie "The Rocky Horror Picture Show.") The show features Dr. Frank N. Furter, a transvestite scientist who gives straight-couple Brad and Janet a night that changes their lives.

Wise Up!

Acting

By David Bruce

The late 18th and early 19th century actress Dora Jordan once appeared as Roxalana in "The Sultan" before an audience that contained enemies of hers who loudly criticized her.

Wise Up!

Authors

By David Bruce

Very often, famous authors are much like other people. Gwendolyn Brooks, a poet who won the Pulitzer Prize, was a big fan of soap operas and would not talk on the telephone when a favorite soap opera was being broadcast.

Wise Up!

Christmas

By David Bruce

• On Dec. 17, 1933, during the Great Depression, an advertisement appeared in The Canton Repository newspaper. A donor using the pseudonym B. Virdot offered to send $5 to people in need who wrote him a letter telling him what they would do with the money.

Wise Up!

Books

Haki R. Madhubuti came from a home that did not seem to be a breeding ground for success. His mother had a cleaning job that required her to sleep with the building owner. Later, she became a drunkard

Wise Up!

People with Handicaps

By David Bruce

• Jean-Dominique Bauby, editor-in-chief of French Elle, suffered a massive stroke that left his body almost totally incapacitated although his mind was fine.

 
 
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