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Ask the Advice Goddess
I've been with my
boyfriend for two years. I do have trust issues, having been cheated on in past
relationships. My boyfriend's best friend of six years, a beautiful and
intelligent woman, passed away three months ago. Since then, he has visited her
grave weekly and kept a photo of them together posted online.
Ask the Advice Goddess
I've been with my
boyfriend for two years. I do have trust issues, having been cheated on in past
relationships. My boyfriend's best friend of six years, a beautiful and
intelligent woman, passed away three months ago. Since then, he has visited her
grave weekly and kept a photo of them together posted online.
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I got involved with my co-host on my Web show – a woman in an "open relationship" with her live-in boyfriend of two years. Things were light and fun between us until we developed actual feelings for each other and he got jealous and she became guilty and torn.
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This woman and I were involved 13 years ago, before I met my wife, but she was married then. She got divorced and moved away. We reconnected recently on Facebook, and I discovered she's now only 20 miles away. I told her I'm happily married, and I've never cheated on my wife, but I would risk everything for her and want to meet her for an intimate encounter.
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I walked into my apartment and, to my horror, thought my boyfriend had been electrocuted. He was sprawled on the kitchen floor by an open electrical outlet with wires sticking out. There was a screwdriver near him, and the skin on his arm and hand was discolored.
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I work 9 to 5, and my girlfriend of two years is retired and pretty much free all day. I've asked that we treat dinner as our special time to reconnect and ignore incoming phone calls. Sadly, instead of embracing this request, she has resisted me with full force.
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I was seeing a guy for four months – a guy I liked more than I've ever liked anyone. Two months in, he was calling me his girlfriend, putting me on the phone with his mom and saying that I shouldn't look to be dating other people. Yet, I noticed that he remained on the dating website we met on and was checking in there daily.
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I'm going to propose to my girlfriend, and it seems there's this trend of doing crazy, elaborate things to ask a girl to marry you. I know I can't compete with the guys like the New York City dude I just read about who threw down $45,000 to pop the question.
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I can't talk to really pretty girls. If I'm talking to a girl I'm not that interested in or a dude, I'm golden. But if I'm attracted to a girl, my thoughts get totally scrambled. After a party, I walked this sweet, gorgeous girl to her car.
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I've been with my boyfriend for a year. We were best friends and talked about everything – what our kids would be like, projects we'd do together, magical worlds, and even other people we found attractive.
Help Me, Harlan!
Hey Harlan: I'm 20 years old, and I'm already balding pretty bad. It's my hairline and the top of my head. It's getting worse, and I have a good feeling I'm going to lose a significant amount of hair by the time I'm done with college.
Help Me, Harlan!
Hey Harlan: I'm 20 years old, and I'm already balding pretty bad. It's my hairline and the top of my head. It's getting worse, and I have a good feeling I'm going to lose a significant amount of hair by the time I'm done with college.
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Dear Harlan: I'm headed off to college in the fall. The school I will be attending has a roommate search tool, and I plan to live in the honors dorm. After a few days of waiting for a potential roommate, a student found me on Facebook.
Help Me, Harlan!
Dear Readers: Several weeks ago, I asked for your help to stop a college student from driving drunk. Thank you for the responses. The first one I've included is a handwritten letter from a convicted drunk driver serving time.
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Dear Harlan: I can't seem to move past this girl I recently split up with. I'm someone who puts all my effort into a relationship, and she treated me like an option. I know she isn't th
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Dear Harlan: As a full-fledged member of the Getting Naked Experiment, I'm all about putting on my thongs and getting into more rooms. I've been on a few dates, some good, some terrible, which is to be expected.
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Dear Readers: I'm disturbed. I was recently visiting a college campus when something happened that's never happened before. Before my event, I like to have dinner with students. It was during a lighthearted dinner conversation when a student casually revealed that he often drives drunk. His tone was so casual; he could have been asking to pass the ketchup.
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Hey Harlan: My boyfriend goes to school in Florida and I only see him during long breaks. I haven't seen him since before Christmas. My problem is that he told me that he is going to the military ball with a girl who he says he is just friends with, but I know that she gave him oral sex on the tennis court before we started dating.
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Dear Harlan: I'm a 62-year-old divorced male. I've been alone for 12 years since the divorce from my wife. The older I get, the more I feel it would be nice to have a girlfriend. But there are several obstacles involved.
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Dear Harlan: My relationship with my sister is strained. She always seems to have a problem, but she will never let me help her out. How can I support and help her when she won't let me? I'm getting to the place where I'm ready to give up. Help. – Sad Sibling
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Dear Harlan: I'm not one to jump into bed with someone I just met. Well, the other night, I met a guy and slept with him the same night. We've gotten together a couple more times and I really like him. I know you tell people to make it easy without being easy. Is there hope? I'm sorry I was easy.
The View from Mudsock Heights
History is so very interesting that any sentient being surely pauses once in awhile to wonder why we pay so little attention to it.
The View from Mudsock Heights
History is so very interesting that any sentient being surely pauses once in awhile to wonder why we pay so little attention to it.
The View from Mudsock Heights
There was news at the end of last week that a British sailor was killed while practicing for the America's Cup races later this summer. It caught my attention because one of the few things I've missed since I moved here is sailboat racing, and because the America's Cup used to be interesting.
The View from Mudsock Heights
When I was very tiny, I went one fine spring day to a construction site with my father – he was a contractor for a few years before the newspaper lured him back to reporting – and there I found and caught a small leopard frog.
The View from Mudsock Heights
Mosaic turned 20 last week. The anniversary went largely unnoticed, but it shouldn't have, because Mosaic changed all our lives. It was the first usable graphical "browser,"
The View from Mudsock Heights
Have you ever heard of Kathy Boudin? No? Well, let me tell you about her. She is the child of left-wing privilege. She grew up in Greenwich Village, the daughter of lefty lawyer Leonard Boudin and the niece of Marxist theoretician Louis Boudin. She went to all the right schools and even spent a year studying abroad, in the Soviet Union.
The View from Mudsock Heights
Two weeks ago, in honor of the date, I wrote what I thought was a hilarious April Fool column that, for a variety of reasons, did not get published. I'd like to take this opportunity to sa
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When was the last time you sat down and had a good think about cicadas? Well, like it or not you're about to do just that. For this is the year that the 17-year cicadas crawl out of the ground all along the East Coast.
The View from Mudsock Heights
Ever since the idea of cloning became a real possibility, everyone with any imagination at all has jumped to the conclusion that this meant we could (and no doubt would) before long be able to bring back many, or at least some, of the species that have gone extinct.
The View from Mudsock Heights
Used to be, as you approached Stewart from the south on Ohio Rt. 329, you'd see a sign, long and low and weathered, announcing that soon you would be near the Glasshouse Works.
The View from Mudsock Heights
It seems to me that it would be far more enjoyable were the festivities of Feb. 2 turned over to the Church of Rome. Think about it. The expectant crowd would gather, the enthusiasm bu
Wise Up!
Steve Earle's life has been more interesting than most, although except for the music and the moments of happiness, that may not be a good thing. For example, in 1994 he kicked heroin – after spending four months in jail.
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Columbine High School is famous today because of the shooting there, but because of 18-year-old senior Ruben Ortega, San Gabriel High School is not famous. On April 20, 1988, he went to school as usual. However, on this day, another student carried an assault rifle to school.
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Ramones bass player Dee Dee Ramone was a writer of fiction (he wrote the novel "Chelsea Horror Hotel"), which means that he occasionally wrote fiction when he was supposed to be writing nonfiction – like many, most, or all writers of fiction, Dee Dee didn't mind exaggerating (or lying) in order to make a good story better.
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While attending Syracuse University, Dave Bing roomed with Frank Nicoletti. The two got along very well together, despite being of different races – Mr. Bing is African American, while Mr. Nicoletti is white.






