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Monday, September 1,2014
Help Me, Harlan!

First comes doubt, then comes the breakup

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: I've been in a serious relationship for a year, but I'm having doubts. How do I know when it's the right time to break up?- Doubting

Sunday, August 24,2014
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Get real, nice guys don't really exist

Dear Harlan: I can't tell you how tired I am of hearing that women don't want a nice guy. That was the line my current husband used on me. I was honest with him from the beginning that I was looking for a permanent relationship, would work hard to make it last and that porn was a deal-breaker because it ruined my two previous relationships.
Sunday, August 10,2014
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Yes, love is possible for a 38-year-old virgin

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: Not to go into too much detail, but throughout most of my life, my mother brought not-so-desirable men into my home, starting with my father. So now I feel like I am just not meant to have good men in my life.
Sunday, August 3,2014
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Girlfriend needs to change expectations or get new guy

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: My boyfriend and I are going through a difficult time. He had a tough childhood, and he's suppressed so many issues for so long that it's caused him to build a wall.
Sunday, July 27,2014
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Reader quits! Reading about sleeping around is not acceptable

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: I have written to you before about my concerns with your writing about people sleeping together with no avail. There are times when I think you give good advice, but will no longer read your column. It's not a fit. - MGK

Sunday, July 20,2014
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Last-minute college switch up-ends daughter’s future

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: Our daughter was wait-listed by an in-state college. We were going to send her to an out-of-state college, until last week. We received word that she was accepted to the in-state college.
Sunday, July 6,2014
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Look in the mirror and then look for a date

By Harlan Cohen
Hey Harlan: I just turned 30, bought a townhouse a few months ago, own a car and work full time at a place I love. I have one of the strongest groups of friends ever, and I am happy.
Sunday, June 29,2014
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Nice guys who go on lots of dates are hot

By Harlan Cohen
Hey Harlan: I recently took a girl out on a date and we were hitting it off. She pointed out to me that she would be more interested in dating a bad guy because she believes that she can fix a bad boy.
Sunday, June 22,2014
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Cool girl needs to change her approach if she ever wants to find a cool guy

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: I think I'm a really cool girl, but it seems like every guy I'm into doesn't want a relationship at all - they always say that I'm everything they want in a girl, but for "later in life." When is this going to stop? - Too Cool

Sunday, June 15,2014
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Widower's new gal can't tolerate hearing deceased wife's name

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: I'm a recent widower – my wife of 30 years passed away five months ago.  I'm now dating a woman who's insisting I not mention my wife by name, or even refer to her as "my wife."
 
 
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