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Sunday, April 20,2014
Help Me, Harlan!

Father wants to help college-bound son commit

By Harlan Cohen
Hi Harlan: I am not sure how to guide my college-bound son with his final decision. He can't make up his mind. He is torn between engineering and business.
Sunday, April 13,2014
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Once a cheater, not always a cheater

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: I used to cheat on a boyfriend I had from high school to freshman year of college. I ended it. I'm now in an amazing relationship and couldn't even imagine cheating on my boyfriend. Do you believe in "once a cheater, always a cheater"? My mom always says that.
Sunday, March 30,2014
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Boyfriend’s body hair no longer cute and cuddly

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: My boyfriend is incredibly hairy on his chest and back. At first, it didn't bother me. It's now starting to turn me off sexually. What am I supposed to do? I don't know how to sensitiv
Sunday, March 23,2014
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Hooking up is one way to cover up pain of the past

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: I broke up with my boyfriend of two years a year ago. I've been having a hard time getting over him. Lately, I've been hooking up with three different guys (no sex, just making out). I'm having a hard time deciding which one to date. I'm afraid that if I pick one, I'll have second thoughts. I like them all. Any advice?
Sunday, March 16,2014
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Truth hurts: He doesn’t want to date her, just sleep with her

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: We act like we're dating, and we're sleeping together, but there's no official title and no commitment. He says he feels like I'm the one for him, but part of him wants the "college experience" he never had.
Sunday, March 9,2014
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Friend who blacks out tells everyone to just butt out

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: My friend gets blackout drunk several times each week, and I am concerned for him. When I try to talk to him about it, he puts up a massive wall and won't talk about it. What should I do? - Shut Out

Sunday, March 2,2014
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Reader disputes the idea that he's a small-minded racist

Dear Harlan: I wanted to respond to your advice to the young woman whose parents didn't approve of interracial dating.
Sunday, February 23,2014
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Daughter wants to help mom get out of abusive relationship

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: My mom needs help. First, some background information: I started dating my boyfriend in high school. When he started college, his dad was fired from his job. That's when my boyfriend came up to Maine to go to college with me.
Sunday, February 16,2014
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Interracial marriage still a problem for many parents

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: The man who wants to marry me is a great, supportive guy. He wants to commit himself to me forever, and I can see myself doing the same. We are both 24 and ready to commit. 
Sunday, February 9,2014
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A Valentine’s Day pep talk to my singleton readers

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Readers: Happy Valentine's Day! If you're in love, savor it. If you're looking for love, go out and find it. It's that easy. I know you don't believe me, but it's true. After speaking to thousands of single people in 46 states for more than 18 years, I can tell you that you are the problem.
 
 
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