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Sunday, October 26,2014
Help Me, Harlan!

Want a woman to want you? Give her the OK to reject you

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: I'm a junior in college and have a crush on this girl. I don't drink or go out that much, and neither does she, which is pretty rare on our campus. We're decently good friends, but not extraordinarily close.
Sunday, September 28,2014
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Questioning kid needs lots of gay friends in his life

By Harlan Cohen
Hey Harlan: Ever since I was in high school, I've been attracted to other males. I am now a 20-year-old who has never spoken about it to anyone, simply because I don't know how, or what to say.
Sunday, September 14,2014
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Did you fall for a man with physical challenge? I need your stories

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: I'm 35 and feel like I'm undateable. I was born with Spina Bifida and walk with crutches. I've never been on a date. Women just don't see me that way. I can't tell you how painful it is.
Monday, September 1,2014
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First comes doubt, then comes the breakup

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: I've been in a serious relationship for a year, but I'm having doubts. How do I know when it's the right time to break up?- Doubting

Sunday, August 24,2014
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Get real, nice guys don't really exist

Dear Harlan: I can't tell you how tired I am of hearing that women don't want a nice guy. That was the line my current husband used on me. I was honest with him from the beginning that I was looking for a permanent relationship, would work hard to make it last and that porn was a deal-breaker because it ruined my two previous relationships.
Sunday, August 10,2014
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Yes, love is possible for a 38-year-old virgin

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: Not to go into too much detail, but throughout most of my life, my mother brought not-so-desirable men into my home, starting with my father. So now I feel like I am just not meant to have good men in my life.
Sunday, August 3,2014
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Girlfriend needs to change expectations or get new guy

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: My boyfriend and I are going through a difficult time. He had a tough childhood, and he's suppressed so many issues for so long that it's caused him to build a wall.
Sunday, July 27,2014
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Reader quits! Reading about sleeping around is not acceptable

By Harlan Cohen

Dear Harlan: I have written to you before about my concerns with your writing about people sleeping together with no avail. There are times when I think you give good advice, but will no longer read your column. It's not a fit. - MGK

Sunday, July 20,2014
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Last-minute college switch up-ends daughter’s future

By Harlan Cohen
Dear Harlan: Our daughter was wait-listed by an in-state college. We were going to send her to an out-of-state college, until last week. We received word that she was accepted to the in-state college.
Sunday, July 6,2014
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Look in the mirror and then look for a date

By Harlan Cohen
Hey Harlan: I just turned 30, bought a townhouse a few months ago, own a car and work full time at a place I love. I have one of the strongest groups of friends ever, and I am happy.
 
 
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