Let’s work together to put an end to the problem of teen dating violence

To the Editor:

February is National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month.

Sadly, an alarming number of young people experience physical, sexual or emotional abuse as part of a controlling or violent dating relationship. As a consequence, many of our youth suffer from impaired development, physical harm and long-term health complications.

While substantial progress has been made in the area of violence against women, dating violence remains a reality for millions of teens across our country, and our local communities are not immune. In a 12- month period, one in 10 high school students nationwide reported that they were purposely physically hurt by their boyfriend or girlfriend, and many more experienced verbal or emotional abuse such as shaming, bullying or threatening behaviors. Too often dating violence also leads to physical and sexual assault.

Awareness and honest discourse can set us on a path toward tackling this problem. Adults and parents in particular should model healthy relationships and condemn unacceptable behaviors. Ask questions and reinforce expectations regarding dating relationships.  There is a national dating abuse helpline offering information and support.  The number is 1-866-331-9474 or text "loveis" to 77054, or visit www.loveisrespect.org.  Many other resources exist, but the solutions start right here, at home.

Robert W. Stewart, Judge
Athens County Juvenile Court
Athens